Just some thoughts

[chanterofelegies]

So I go buy something at the bakery. I say "Good afternoon", and most of the time, I get nothing back. Like I hadn't said anything at all. Then, I pay and say "Thank you", with a smile. Ignored again.

This is actually common, and happens pretty much all the time. I feel really bad. It's like I don't even exist.

So, tonight, at school (just a few minutes ago) I bought some chocolate. As usual, I said "Thank you" and smiled, and I was surprised that I actually got a smile back along with a "You're welcome".

I guess my point actually is: people should try being kind more often. Sometimes all a person needs is for you to acknowledge their presence. So really, if you have the chance, smile to people you come across in the streets, even if you don't know them. I do it all the time, and I always feel good about it, and I like to think they do, too.

 

 

Comments

[1cheezymonkey.livejournal.com]

I'm totally the same~ although it seems I've got a bit more luck with people returning my greetings.

But it's good that you stay wonderful and polite even though nobody returns the favor. :>

[margerydaw-s2.livejournal.com]

Thank's ^^

[fire-lord-azula.livejournal.com]

BB, it's exactly the same way here.  People are incredibly rude and unthankful.  I've made it a habit to hold doors open for people, or move aside if I see they need to get through... and I almost never get a "thank you"!  It's like they think it's owed to them!

But, occasionally, I'll run across a person with decency, and it always brightens my mood to hear them say "thank you".  It makes you feel appreciated.

What I don't get is, why wouldn't people smile and say "thank you" to you?  You're cute.